Frequently Asked Questions

Q & A

Electronic deposit (please view deposit policy)

Cash /Bitcoin/Credit Card for remainder only. Cash preferred for remaining balance. I do not accept Venmo or cash app for balances.

If we are in public please be discreet by putting my rates in either a card, book, or gift bag AT THE BEGINNING OF THE DATE. Do not wait until after dinner. Suggestions- in a card, gift bag, or even a handbag .

Cancellation-When you cancel you owe the rest of the money and it is due by the date of your original appointment. Don’t pay? Then you won’t be able to ever re-book and I won’t recommend you to friends in town when the ask because people do ask. Depending on how you cancel will determine if I apply the money to our next date. Rude about it? Then I won’t. I only re-book gentlemen who keep their word and are courteous. Most men have no problem paying their cancellation as I apply it to our next date as long as you are nice and respectful.

Deposits are only refundable if I cancel and are due at the time of request. For my remaining rate cash or Bitcoin is preferred. Electronic payments are only accepted with a 20% surcharge if utilized to pay the remaining in person  balance, the only exception being credit card. Please pay your remaining balance in cash. Electronic payments for final balances are up to my discretion.

If I cancel you for non-bad behavior you will be refunded unless you reschedule. You won’t be refunded if I cancel because you are acting a fool/breaking rules/endangering me.

Deposits-

Deposit Amounts-View rates page

 Deposit appointments are honored first and take priority.  No deposit dates are up to my discretion for KC and not offered to everyone even if you pay more. Last minute or history of cancellation may require higher deposit. 

1-2.5 hour dates-

$100-250-Kansas City

30% Atlanta/St. Louis, 50% same day

50% All Other Cities

3 hours plus-

25% for dates 12 hours plus

35% for dates 3-8 hours, 50% same day

Fly Me to You domestic dates all have a 50% deposit.

Full pre-payment for international dates.

Everyone loves a good story but ours is private. Let’s keep the steamy details between us too. I have a strict no review policy. Breaching this trust will result in blacklisting. Do not tell other people what we did together, period.

I don’t give references or use them for screening. However you can provide references in addition to if you like.

No couples, no threesomes , no duos.

Incalls are always hosted in a centralized location of a business/shopping/downtown district. This includes touring.

If early check-in is not available for your early incall appointment and two hotels nights are needed to accommodate then you must pay for that.

Outcalls must include roundtrip Uber. There will also be a surcharge if your hotel is in the middle of Timbuktu, lets be reasonable with traveling far.

Outcalls to homes are up to my discretion and not to married men or communal living homes ever. You need to be single with no one elsewhere. This is a case by case basis and you may still need to get a hotel.

3 Hour plus dates require dinner/lunch/and or breakfast.

All overnights and longer are outcall only and require dinner, breakfast, lunch depending on date length.

Sleep required for overnight dates. If you are on a drug /Viagra induced binge and wake me from my slumber add 2000 USD to my overnight rate. Overnights are for men who want an girlfriend experience not crazy junkies who try and overdose on fun. I am not a doctor therefore can’t help you in the case of your party emergency. I do not like to entertain men under extreme influence. I want you to live to see another day.

Separate beds and suites are appreciated for overnights, I hate crammed hotel rooms. Feels like jail.

Overnights  plus require my own space for time to get ready and for relaxation. This is so I have access to the hotel if you are not around even for five minutes. I do not add my name to your hotel reservation ever. I will sleep in your room but for legality purposes I need access to my own room in case of lost key, door jams, elevator, etc. If you do not want to do this do not book an overnight. These exact things have happened to me (being locked out a bathroom and accidentally and can’t get help bc it’s not my room) which is why I have this rule. The cost is covered by you and will be collected at the time of me booking my room. Please do not be an asshole about this. Not having access to a hotel is embarrassing and I do not want to explain any precarious situation to the front desk. While I do understand that you departing early and giving me the hotel room is a nice gesture legally I will not have access to the room in case of an emergency. This is a very important issue.

Time is valuable for everyone.
More than three emails before a deposit is received is considered excessive and when will result in a 150 usd fee paid.
*Additional fees if applicable are due with you deposit at time of booking.*

For discretionary reasons men 23-59 are my preferred dating range. I also prefer to date men below 40% body fat or someone at a healthy/ moderate weight as I am very healthy and like walking and outdoor activities on extended dates. If you are outside of  these perimeters send a picture with your booking so I can determine if it would be an appropriate  match.